Sarah Raine-Blake
Picture the scene: it's the start of summer, 1978, and two fourteen-year-old girls dressed in flares are sitting on a park bench in London. The one shedding tears straight from a crocodile's eyes is my best friend.
"Please," she wheedled, "you know if I have to pick up those two romantic books for my mum, I won't have time to meet Philip. You could get them for her. It's not as if you have a boy to meet..."
Sore point, but true. So I agreed to help. While she dashed off with spotty Phil, I would pick up her Mum's books and hand them in. Anything to help Love's Young Dream...
Fifteen minutes later in the small bookshop, my own love affair started. I had already picked up the books intended for my friend's mum, but I could hardly drag my eyes away from the rows of passion before me! Nor could I resist flicking through some of the Regency romances. History had never interested me in school, but Mills & Boon writers made history come alive- so much so, I bought two, stuck them in my duffel bag, and hurried home.
That afternoon changed my life forever. I got so involved in history, I took my degree in it, and went on to lecture. No wonder I love Mills & Boon books so much, and I'm not alone. Wherever I go, I meet people who share my passion. And why not? A good plot, well written, can take me to exotic locations, introduce me to luxurious lifestyles, or bring me into the tension of a medical romance. All this for a price that won’t break the bank, and makes my pleasure far from guilty. Best of all, I love Mills & Boon books because they confirm that no matter how challenging the world (or my life!) becomes, things like love, loyalty, passion and caring, never go out of fashion.
Star Mungai:
When I was about 13, my parents decided to send me to a mixed boarding school. As it should be, romantic relationships were severely frowned upon. In a bid to prevent all this ‘love nonsense’ as the principal called it, all romantic literature was prohibited. Top of the list of the tabooed books were Mills & Boon novels. However, that never stopped my classmates from sending cutesy love notes and kissing under the stairs. And, as is expected with hormonal pre-pubescent teens, Mills & Boon novels became the most sought after, the most read, the most relished.
My siblings have always teased me for being a late bloomer; my boobs filled out long after my younger sister’s- and are yet to catch up, my baby fat did not even out till I was out of high school. This means that at 13, nobody was sending me love notes of how pretty my eyes are and how I smelled like sunshine. However, my mind was way ahead of my body; I noticed cute boys and how they smiled at cute girls.
When I read Mills & Boon novels, I escaped. I became the enchanting heroine with little idea of her immense worth with a drop-dead gorgeous guy dying to show her how beautiful she really was and wanting to cherish her for the rest of his existence. I learnt from Mills & Boon that there is a ‘one’ who wants only you, who loves you for your shortcomings and adores you for your virtues. Since 13, because of Mills & Boon, I decided to wait for my ‘one’.
Eventually my body caught up with the rest of me, I became quite the striking lady even if I do say so myself. Then I met my ‘one’ in campus. And he was every bit as gorgeous as Mills & Boon promised; from his magnetic smile, his toned body, right down to the ripped abs. When I see how much I mean to him, I realize my intrinsic worth. In accordance with Mills & Boon protocol, we recently got engaged, and are one step closer to allowing him to cherish me for the rest of his existence...
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Joanne Lush
Wednesday 02 November, 2011, 9:36 PM
I am a huge fan of M&B because they have the ability to let you leave your own life and troubles behind for a short while and step into somebody elses shoes. They make you laugh and cry, and even angry sometimes over how a favourite character is being mistreated. You also learn many interesting facts along the way. They touch your heart and I think ultimately make you a nicer person. Joannex
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Christine MacKenzie
Wednesday 02 November, 2011, 4:18 PM
This is really interesting girls.
Like MF Gillan, I read M&B from a reasonably young age, fourteen. And like Star, I didn't develop boobs or a figure until I was eighteen so I wasn't exactly popular with the boys. In fact I remember wearing one of those bras that 'grew' with you over my vest in vain hope it would pad me out. My friends couldn't stop laughing when I stripped for P.E.
Reading stories of alpha males who put the needs and desires of the heroine before their own (in the end) taught me to wait for that special man. As you can see from how I met my husband (engaged after two weeks), I'd sort of given up and in spite of family and peer pressure I simply refused to 'settle' and am I glad I did!
My mother used to 'blame' Mills & Boon for giving me 'unrealistic' expectations of how a real man should act. My grandmother and I disagreed completely.
I wanted a man who put me front and centre in his life. A man who had values, integrity and courage, just like a real M&B hero. Because my standards were high and I refused to settle for less, that is exactly what I got.
He's 100% behind me with my writing. In fact, he has more faith and belief in me than I have at times and how amazing is that?
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MF Gillan
Wednesday 02 November, 2011, 3:24 PM
I just wanted to say this to M&B:
I have loved romance since I was old enough to understand it: but I felt that reading your books as a teenager made me EXPECT the knight in shining armour to come along. I didn't want second best. In the books I read nothing but an alpha male would do. So I waited until he came along and I was 20 until he did! We married young and have 3 small children. The books told me to expect to be swept off my feet and I was.
I thinking reading romance from an early age can instill in a girl to expect dignity, respect, love and romance from a man. I would certainly want my little girl to read them and be given that feeling that these fantasies in books can actually come true !!!
Thank you M&B for this. x
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